Memory is a record.
People only have substance within the memories of other people. And that’s why there were all kinds of myself. There weren’t a lot of myself per se, I was just inside all sorts of people, that’s all.

PA City Punishes Domestic Violence Victims Who Call the Police

goforthandagitate:

Last year in Norristown, Pa., Lakisha Briggs’ boyfriend physically assaulted her, and the police arrested him. But in a cruel turn of events, a police officer then told Ms. Briggs, “You are on three strikes. We’re gonna have your landlord evict you.”

Yes, that’s right. The police threatened Ms. Briggs with eviction because she had received their assistance for domestic violence. Under Norristown’s “disorderly behavior ordinance,” the city penalizes landlords and tenants when the police respond to three instances of “disorderly behavior” within a four-month period. The ordinance specifically includes “domestic disturbances” as disorderly behavior that triggers enforcement of the law.

After her first “strike,” Ms. Briggs was terrified of calling the police. She did not want to do anything to risk losing her home. So even when her now ex-boyfriend attacked her with a brick, she did not call. And later, when he stabbed her in the neck, she was still too afraid to reach out. But both times, someone else did call the police. Based on these “strikes,” the city pressured her landlord to evict. After a housing court refused to order an eviction, the city said it planned to condemn the property and forcibly remove Ms. Briggs from her home. The ACLU intervened, and the city did not carry out its threats, and even agreed to repeal the ordinance. But just two weeks later, Norristown quietly passed a virtually identical ordinance that imposes fines on landlords unless they evict tenants who obtain police assistance, including for domestic violence.

….. SERIOUSLY?!

(Source: robot-heart-politics)

utnereader:

Men Who Knock Down Doors: Tyrants at Home and Abroad
Secretive, paranoid, and aggressive, our militarized, hyper-masculine political culture feeds violence abroad and in the home. As John Stuart Mill argued, the subjection of nations has everything to do with the subjection of women. Read more.

utnereader:

Men Who Knock Down Doors: Tyrants at Home and Abroad

Secretive, paranoid, and aggressive, our militarized, hyper-masculine political culture feeds violence abroad and in the home. As John Stuart Mill argued, the subjection of nations has everything to do with the subjection of women. Read more.

Australian university colleges have officially become terrifying

afternoonsnoozebutton:

echoing-artemis:

And no, this time I’m not talking about St Paul’s and its pro-rape facebook group and ongoing rape culture (although we could all stand a reminder that shit like “they can’t say no with a cock in their mouth” still exists in 2012).

But tumblr, I really need a signal boost on this one. People need to know. If I were to walk into this situation as an unsuspecting, naive fresher next year I think it would have actually broken me. Here’s the breakdown.

In March this year 33 male students of St John’s College (an accommodation complex within the University of Sydney) were implicated in the near-death of a female fresher. Despite her protests of a potentially fatal medical condition, they forced her and several other women to drink a ‘cocktail’ that included off-milk, dog food and shampoo, in addition to alcohol. She was then left alone to convulse on the floor of a corridor as her stomach ruptured. She spent three days in hospital.

Ostensibly this was “justice”: the punishment for her failure to walk down a corridor backwards, as per the College’s O-Week “rules”. It was her first day in the College.

The College rector, in an admirable attempt to take things in hand, investigated and suspended all the students. He also assigned them to community service and banned them from running for the student council - a decision that was recently overturned. Shortly afterwards, another of the rector’s decisions (to expel a student who caused property damage with a fire extinguisher) met the same fate. The students, quickly realising that the rector had very little actual power, immediately descended into anarchy.

Naming themselves “The Justice Group”, the 33 men made shirts depicting a vomiting eagle - a particularly tasteful nod to both the College’s crest and the hospitalised girl. They began to set fires, spread faeces and smash windows. Women became known as “Jets” (Just Excuse The Slags) and are snubbed by all men once a fortnight so that the men may remain ‘clean’. And should they protest to the blatant misogyny and mistreatment in anyway:

They are ostracised and subjected to horrible and vicious slander. Your door can be kicked in, your room vandalised, and your possessions stolen or strewn across the college. You will receive disgusting and intimidating notes that threaten further retaliation and demand you leave the house. You live in fear, constantly worried about tomorrow, and watching your friends disown you for fear they too will be punished.

And even worse: in retaliation for the overturned ban against running for the student council, seven of the nine available positions have now been taken by members of the original 33. These men will now be responsible for setting the College’s culture, organising events, establishing its rules, enforcing those rules and yes - initiating freshers.

Men who nearly killed a girl this year and continue to harass and threaten many more will now be in near-total control of the College for 2013.

Please pass this on. Not everyone who applies for a College necessarily googles it beforehand, and for some reason I haven’t seen this story reported on any television station. There will be women (and men) walking into this College with absolutely no idea what’s waiting for them.

What the everloving fuck did I just read

Jesus Christ.

"You know, you’re really cute for an over-sized girl."

Friend of my ex. As if my size were a hinderance to me dating. I was the ONLY attractive fat girl that he knew of. I sobered up quickly after that. Little did he know, it was my ex’s pattern of abuse that caused me to gain 100+ pounds. I am 24, in my apartment I felt belittled and ugly. Like as woman, I couldn’t be desirable unless I looked like everyone else. Like I was “cute” aside from my size. (via microaggressions)

(Source: microaggressions)

crookedindifference:

united-nations:

Last chance to vote for your favorite ad to end violence against women and girls. The ad with the most votes by the end of today (11:59 PM, CEST) will be awarded the Public Prize. Every vote cast will count as an action on @Say No – UNiTE. Your vote is your voice!

About this competition: No to violence against women - United Nations European ad competition

View the entries & vote!


Just over four hours left to vote.
Help pick the best ad campaign to represent this important cause.

Violence against women and girls (VAW) is one of the most systematic and widespread human rights violations. It is rooted in gendered social structures rather than individual and random acts; it cuts across age, socio-economic, educational and geographic boundaries; affects all societies; and is a major obstacle to ending gender inequality and discrimination globally. According to UN Women, between 15 and 76 percent of women are targeted for physical and/or sexual violence in their lifetime.
For more information on VAW please visit: http://www.unwomen.org/focus-areas/?show=Violence%20against%20Women

crookedindifference:

united-nations:

Last chance to vote for your favorite ad to end violence against women and girls. The ad with the most votes by the end of today (11:59 PM, CEST) will be awarded the Public Prize. Every vote cast will count as an action on @Say No – UNiTE. Your vote is your voice!

About this competition: No to violence against women - United Nations European ad competition

View the entries & vote!

Just over four hours left to vote.

Help pick the best ad campaign to represent this important cause.

Violence against women and girls (VAW) is one of the most systematic and widespread human rights violations. It is rooted in gendered social structures rather than individual and random acts; it cuts across age, socio-economic, educational and geographic boundaries; affects all societies; and is a major obstacle to ending gender inequality and discrimination globally. According to UN Women, between 15 and 76 percent of women are targeted for physical and/or sexual violence in their lifetime.

For more information on VAW please visit: http://www.unwomen.org/focus-areas/?show=Violence%20against%20Women

Indian women alter SlutWalk to better match country’s conservatism

Indian women alter SlutWalk to better match country’s conservatism

A young man follows a teenage girl along a street in India’s capital on a recent muggy morning, leering. The girl, wearing jeans topped with a long tunic, quickens her steps. As the man closes in, she covers her mouth with her hands. Bystanders cover their eyes.

Then everybody freezes in place.

The two had just acted out the first scene of a street play about sexual harassment and social acquiescence that Indian university students have been performing across the city as part of the run-up to SlutWalk Delhi, India’s version of the campus campaign that began in Toronto in April and has since spread to Argentina, Australia, Britain, Germany, South Korea and the United States.

the-rani:

milligans:

supernatural-std:

1864impala:

the-unpopular-opinions:

Killing a man who kills to show others that killing is wrong makes us all killers.
Discuss or disagree: thegirlwhosmiledtoomuch.tumblr.com 

You give me a child abuser or a rapist or an animal abuser or someone else who has done something as sick and as cruel and that and then tell me they don’t deserve to die.
I want them to bring the death penalty back.
If that makes me a killer then so be it.

^^
i love you.

You would kill them, even though in some cases, these people hate themselves and death would just be  a blessing for them and something they want? 
I think jail time is a much better punishment, personally. I would like to see the death penalty completely abolished.

Why kill them? The punishment is quick and often fairly painless.
Let them rot to death. Let them be alone in a small room for the rest of their lives. Let them have to fight to retain what small shred of sanity they have left. Let them be hated by everyone in the prison. Let the guards look the other way when they bleed and fall and cough and shake. Let nobody mourn their eventual withering.
The death penalty isn’t nearly punishment enough.

The death penalty has yet to deter violent crime, rape, torture, abuse, any of the crimes that the death penalty is applied to and inhumane treatment leads to inhumane treatment. The correctional system itself needs to be corrected; overcrowding needs to be addressed; rehabilitation needs to be in place; the appeals process has to be overhauled; sentencing rules need to be reviewed, re-written; laws need to be changed. Medical resources — for general health, mental health — should be widely available and accessible to all. Work, food, child care, transportation…so much more can be done than to kill someone.

the-rani:

milligans:

supernatural-std:

1864impala:

the-unpopular-opinions:

Killing a man who kills to show others that killing is wrong makes us all killers.

Discuss or disagree: thegirlwhosmiledtoomuch.tumblr.com 

You give me a child abuser or a rapist or an animal abuser or someone else who has done something as sick and as cruel and that and then tell me they don’t deserve to die.

I want them to bring the death penalty back.

If that makes me a killer then so be it.

^^

i love you.

You would kill them, even though in some cases, these people hate themselves and death would just be  a blessing for them and something they want? 

I think jail time is a much better punishment, personally. I would like to see the death penalty completely abolished.

Why kill them? The punishment is quick and often fairly painless.

Let them rot to death. Let them be alone in a small room for the rest of their lives. Let them have to fight to retain what small shred of sanity they have left. Let them be hated by everyone in the prison. Let the guards look the other way when they bleed and fall and cough and shake. Let nobody mourn their eventual withering.

The death penalty isn’t nearly punishment enough.

The death penalty has yet to deter violent crime, rape, torture, abuse, any of the crimes that the death penalty is applied to and inhumane treatment leads to inhumane treatment. The correctional system itself needs to be corrected; overcrowding needs to be addressed; rehabilitation needs to be in place; the appeals process has to be overhauled; sentencing rules need to be reviewed, re-written; laws need to be changed. Medical resources — for general health, mental health — should be widely available and accessible to all. Work, food, child care, transportation…so much more can be done than to kill someone.

Out of control: Reform forced removals


Adrienne Makenda Kambana (centre) is the widow of Jimmy Mubenga, who died during a forced removal from Heathrow by private security contractors in October 2010
Photograph © demotix/Peter Marshall

motherjones:

Invisible Women: The Military’s Not-So-Secret Gender Problem
Yesterday, we posted a link to a jarring GOOD magazine infographic with the title “Female soldiers more likely to be raped by their own troops than killed by enemy fire.” The response was huge…and it got us thinking.

motherjones:

Invisible Women: The Military’s Not-So-Secret Gender Problem

Yesterday, we posted a link to a jarring GOOD magazine infographic with the title “Female soldiers more likely to be raped by their own troops than killed by enemy fire.” The response was huge…and it got us thinking.

motherjones:

Did you read Ted Genoways’ article on the horrific conditions at Minnesota’s SPAM factory? Our food blogger Tom Philpott did, and he’s got some must-read thoughts on the subject as well.
 CALM Action/Flickr

motherjones:

Did you read Ted Genoways’ article on the horrific conditions at Minnesota’s SPAM factory? Our food blogger Tom Philpott did, and he’s got some must-read thoughts on the subject as well.